Nikah (Shaadi) ki Ahmiyat in Islam

 Nikah (Shaadi) ki Ahmiyat Quran aur Hadith 

Islam mein nikah ko ek bahut hi ahem aur babarkat amal maana gaya hai. Yeh sirf ek duniyawi rishta nahi, balki ek deeni zimmedari aur ibadat ka hissa hai.

Quran-e-Kareem se Hidayat

Allah Ta'ala Quran-e-Kareem mein farmate hain:

"Aur Uski nishaniyon mein se yeh hai ke Usne tumhare liye tumhari hi jins se biwiyan paida ki taake tum unke paas sukoon haasil karo, aur tumhare darmiyan mohabbat aur rehmat paida kar di. Beshak is mein ghaur-o-fikr karne walon ke liye nishaniyan hain." (Surah Ar-Rum, Ayat 21)

Is aayat se saaf zaahir hai ke shaadi ka maqsad sukoon, mohabbat aur rehmat haasil karna hai.

Hadith-e-Nabawi (ﷺ) ki Roshni Mein

Rasool-e-Akram, Hazrat Muhammad (Sallallahu Alaihi Wasallam) ne apni Sunnat (amal) aur ahadith (aqwaal) ke zariye shaadi ki ahmiyat aur fazilat par bahut zor diya hai.

1. Nikah Sunnat hai:

Aap (ﷺ) ne farmaya: "Nikah meri sunnat hai, aur jo meri sunnat par amal na kare, woh mujh mein se nahi." (Sunan Ibn Majah)

Is hadith se pata chalta hai ke nikah karna Nabi (ﷺ) ke tareeqe ki pairvi karna hai.

2. Imaan ka Mukammal Hisa:

Ek aur mashoor hadith mein hai: "Jab koi shakhs nikah kar leta hai, to usne apna aadha deen mukammal kar liya. Ab usay baaqi aadhe deen ke maamle mein Allah se darna chahiye." (Mishkat al-Masabih)

Yeh hadith nikah ki deeni ahmiyat ko wazeh karti hai.

3. Naujawano ko Naseehat:

Hazrat Abdullah ibn Mas'ud (Raziallahu Anhu) se riwayat hai ke Nabi (ﷺ) ne farmaya: "Aye naujawanon ki jamaat! Tum mein se jo koi shaadi ki istita'at (taqat) rakhta hai, usay shaadi kar leni chahiye, kyunki yeh nigaahon ko neechi rakhti hai aur sharmgah ki hifazat karti hai. Aur jo iski taqat na rakhe, to usay roza rakhna chahiye, kyunki roza uski shehwat ko kamzor kar dega." (Sahih al-Bukhari)

4. Aurat se Nikah ki Wajah:

Aap (ﷺ) ne farmaya: "Aurat se chaar cheezon ki wajah se nikah kiya jaata hai: uske maal, uske khandaan, uski khoobsurti aur uske deen ki wajah se. Pas tum deen wali ko tarjeeh do, tumhare haath khak-aalood hon (yaani tum kamyaab rahoge)." (Sahih al-Bukhari)

Is hadith mein is baat ki taleem di gayi hai ke biwi ke intekhab mein deendari ko sab se zyada ahmiyat deni chahiye.

5. Sabse Behtareen Nikah:

Hazrat Ayesha (Raziallahu Anha) se riwayat hai ke Rasoolullah (ﷺ) ne farmaya: "Sab se zyada barkat wala nikah woh hai jisme kharch sab se kam ho." (Musnad Ahmad)

Islam mein shaadi mein fuzool kharchi aur dikhawe ko pasand nahi kiya gaya hai.

6. Mehr ki Ahmiyat:

Mehr biwi ka haq hai aur iski adaaigi laazim hai. Quran mein iska wazeh hukum hai. Isko bojh nahi samajhna chahiye balki khushi se adaa karna chahiye.